Romances in previous Bethesda titles could stretch from being just friends all the way to being married to each other and it’s the same when it comes to Starfield. But, it can be quite a task to achieve it, that’s why you’re going to need the Starfield Sarah Morgan romance guide to help you get closer to Sarah Morgan, a Constellation faction member who is also one of the first main storyline characters that you meet in the game.
So, let’s take a look at the things you can do and the choices you can make to impress, start dating, and eventually get married to Sarah Morgan.
Starfield Sarah Morgan romance choices and actions to take

For Sarah Morgan to start taking an interest in you, you must have her as your travel companion. Spending time with her as your companion will allow you to increase her likeness towards you by doing certain actions. These actions and choices are things that are in line with Sarah Morgan’s morals, virtues, and interests.
The Starfield Sarah Morgan romance choices and actions you need to do in order to be liked by her are all things that have a positive moral outcome. For example; helping someone in need, settling issues between people without violence, etc. She also likes everything to do with exploration and science. Whenever you get a choice to praise or support Constellation, make sure to do that since Sarah will highly appreciate that if she is your companion during it.
Doing criminal activities like killing innocent people, making deals with criminals, and using trickery and lies in conversation, are things that Sarah heavily dislikes so make sure you do not do that at least while she is in your party as a companion.
Once she starts liking you, you will get more conversation options with her about her personal life and experiences. During some of these, you will have an option that says [Flirt], make sure to always pick this option because this is one of the crucial Starfield Sarah Morgan Romance choices. Also, pick the options labeled [Romance] later on.
Starfield Sarah Morgan Romance: Proposal & Marriage

Once you have reached a certain point of likeness for Sarah towards you, she will talk to you about her traumatic events in the past about her history as a member of the UC Navy. She will explain how she was involved in a crash landing that took the lives of many of her friends and that she wants your help to visit the crash site and pay her respects to them. To continue in the Starfield Sarah Morgan romance, you will need to help her with this.
Accepting this request from her will start the ‘In Memoriam’ quest and Sarah Morgan will now be defined as your ‘friend’ not just a companion. Completing this quest and returning to New Atlantis with Sarah will now strike up another conversation with her where you will get an option labeled as [Romance]. After picking this option Sarah Morgan will officially become your ‘Girlfriend’.

After this part, continue strengthening your relationship with her by doing good deeds, helping people, being charitable, etc., and make sure Sarah is always alongside you when you do those. Once you reach a certain point of likeness with her, she will bring up a new conversation about her mother and that she wants you to meet her. Here you will get an option labeled [Commitment] which is an option that involves proposing to Sarah for marriage.
Once she prepares for the wedding, it will finally take place on Porrima II where you can even invite her mother. After this, the Starfield Sarah Morgan Romance arc will be done and she will now be married to you. Remember that flirting with anyone else after the [Commitment] option will result in Sarah disliking it and can result in a breakup.
That concludes our guide on Starfield Sarah Morgan Romance. If you are looking to have a romance with any of the other characters in Starfield besides Sarah but aren’t quite sure who you can romance, check out our article on all Starfield romance options.